This Self Care Checklist Ultimate Guide is the perfect way to take care of yourself, mind, body and soul!

Let’s just start of by saying that self-care isn’t selfish! Though it seems to be a trending topic, you may find yourself wondering how to actually practice self care.

What does self care look like? Is it something you do on a weekend? Or only when stressed? Is it all bubble baths, massages and yoga or does it got deeper than that?

We get down to the bottom of what it really means to take care of yourself. And how you can easily do it daily or weekly, with our ultimate self-care checklist.

selfcare-checklistWhy Self Care Is Important

There is so much pressure in today’s world and most people aren’t equipped to deal with long term stress. Lacking the education, tools and skills needed to properly take care of ourselves in all ways. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually and even physically.

Understanding how to get clarity on your needs and creating a self care plan for self nurturing rituals in your busy day to day routine is essential to maintaining peace of mind, balance and harmony in your life.

Left unchecked it can lead to lack of self worth, low self esteem, toxic relationships, poor health, burnout, sleep deprivation, insomnia, depression and anxiety. (1)

What Is Self Care?

Self care is mindfully taking care yourself physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Self care is a way to deeply nurture yourself and fulfill your needs – mind, body and soul. Empowering you to prioritize yourself by making daily choices that serve those needs. (2)

Some self nourishing activities are fun and relaxing and some might not be so fun (like getting up early and going to the gym), but are just as necessary to your overall level of happiness and wellness.

The Four Categories Of Self Care

There are 4 core types of personal  areas of self-care:

  • Physical Self Care – To live, move, and breath and nurture a healthy lifestyle
  • Emotional Self Care – To love, care, and be in a healthy relationship with yourself and with others.
  • Intellectual / Psychological Self Care – To invest in your personal learning and growth.
  • Spiritual Self Care – To feel connected, and have purpose and meaning in your life.

Benefits Of Self-Care

1. Raised Sense Of Self Worth And Self Esteem

Do you have a habit of putting yourself last? When you make time to treat yourself as valuable as you treat others you are reminded that your needs are important. You are worthy, and deserving of love and compassion too.

2. Self Care Boosts Your Energy

Many women are stuck in a cycle of giving and nurturing others and then have nothing left over for themselves. When you are well rested and running on full, you’re actually able to give more, be more creative, better connected with more satisfying relationships.

selfcarechecklist3. Increased Ability To Manage Stress

No matter what, there will be times when life gets busy and stress happens. When you have a  routine in place your energy levels – mentally, emotionally and physically are more able to deal with what life can unexpectedly throw at you. This helps to develop resilience, leaving you better able to cope without becoming overwhelmed and depleted. (3)

4. Self Care Helps To Boost Immunity

When you’re run down, overworked, not eating right and burning the candle at both ends, you’re more susceptible to disease and illness. Taking good care of yourself increases immunity and overall long term health and longevity.

5. Improves The Quality Of Your Life

How many times have you said to yourself “I’d love to do that, I don’t have time” or “I’ll get to it later”…or maybe you aren’t even sure what you really want and haven’t ever taken the time to find out what’s going to make you really, really, happy.

By getting crystal clear on your needs and wants and consistently making self loving choices, you get to find out who you are. You get to stop putting off life and start living your dreams now not “someday”.

How To Create Your Self-Care Checklist

Starting a self-care routine is something that you actually have to plan and make time for in  your every day life. It’s also important to remember, that everyone is going to be different. Also keep in mind that your needs might change from day to day too.

We’ve broken it down to 7 core areas to focus on, so you can achieve as much balance in all areas of your life as possible. The more clear you are on the areas, the easier it will be to see where you are feeling tired, rundown or experiencing unhappiness and needing some tender loving care.

selfcarechecklist1. Physical Self Care

This is probably the on of the most well known type of self care strategies. However, taking care of your physical needs goes much deeper than massages and mani-pedi’s. Which of course are wonderful, there’s just more to it than that.

Physical self care is also getting enough sleep, eating right, exercising, paying attention to where you have an ache or an unmet need in your body. Listening to and respecting your body and all it does for you.

When you take good care of your body you will experience increased energy, motivation and physical pleasure.


Ideas, Activities, Examples For Physical Self Care

  • Get playful! What physical activity lights you up? Belly dancing, yoga, swimming, dance around your living room, go running, take a bike ride, even a simple 20 min daily walk counts
  • Indulge your senses – lay in warm sun, snuggle up with a cozy blanket, slowly eat a piece of dark chocolate, dip your toes in the ocean or walk barefoot in the grass.
  • Have a nap if you’re tired
  • Create a set sleep schedule
  • Incorporate an extra serving of fruits and veggies into your diet every day
  • Get up early and make a healthy breakfast
  • Do anything that makes you feel good about and in your body – book a massage with beautiful essential oils, get your hair or nails done, create a spa in your bathroom

2. Emotional Self Care

There is nothing worse than being emotionally drained and overworked! A lack of emotional well-being can manifest itself in all kinds of ways. From exhaustion and crying, to lack of energy and motivation. It can also show up as un-managed emotions like fear, jealousy, anger, shame.

Learning how to process your emotions and manage your emotional health is vital to your daily and long-term happiness. Take time everyday to check in with yourself and become aware of what you’re feeling and when.

Emotional Self Care Ideas, Examples + Activities

  • Many people experience emotional anxiety due to poor boundaries with others. Learn how to say NO to what you don’t want and YES to what you do want
  • Be compassionate and kind to yourself as you process your emotions, they aren’t good or bad, they just “are”
  • Spend a few minutes everyday writing in a journal, first thing in the morning or last thing at night is ideal
  • Speak to a therapist, coach or trusted friend
  • Listen to your favorite music
  • Stay away from the news
  • Practice meditation or mindfulness
  • Ask for help if you need it

3. Intellectual Self Care

This is your mental, intellectual, creative and cognitive well-being.

Are you feeling stuck in any area of your life? Are things getting boring and stagnant? Being open to new ideas and keeping your brain stimulated and engaged has so many amazing long term health benefits.

Intellectual Well-Being Self Care Examples, Ideas + Activities

  • Take an interesting class
  • Learn a new language
  • Travel somewhere new
  • Fuel your creativity and take up a new hobby
  • Learn how to play an instrument or pick up one that you’ve put aside and re-learn it again
  • Do puzzles, crosswords or suduko
  • Put a brain game app on your phone
  • Read daily

4. Relationship Self Care

Do you have a good relationship with yourself? Are you loving and kind to your yourself? Do you value and honour yourself?

How you treat yourself and the choices you make sets the tone for how others will treat you as well.

Do you spend time with people that lift you up and support you or those that are toxic or draining?

We all need some type of connection, to know that we are not alone and to let ourselves be supported and seen. The people that you surround yourself and the type of relationships that you build make a huge impact on your life.

Self Care Ideas, Activities + Examples For Relationship Well-being

  • Make choices daily that honor yourself and your needs
  • Celebrate your successes
  • Learn, set and reinforce healthy boundaries
  • Connect with an old friend
  • Go for brunch with a friend that lifts you up
  • Smile and say hello to someone next to you in line
  • Join a meetup group or create your own
  • Learn something new, take a class and meet a whole new group of people

5. Spiritual Self Care

Whatever you happen to believe, nourishing your spirit isn’t about religion.

It’s about knowing your values and connecting with your inner world, that part of you that is your soul.

Understanding what matters the most to you and brings healing, deeper meaning and harmony into your life.

Self Care Ideas, Activities + Examples For Your Spiritual Well-being

6. Environmental Self Care

Your personal space has the ability to make you feel like you can take on world or distracted and stressed. How do you take care of your space? Is your environment cluttered and overwhelming or peaceful, joyful and inspiring?

Ideas, Activities + Examples For Environmental Self Care

  • Set a timer for 10 minutes at the end of the day to clear any clutter
  • Don’t let things pile up: do the dishes, the laundry, open and organize your mail and bills
  • Do a bi-yearly purge of old clothes and any unwanted items, sell or giveaway
  • How do you want to feel? Make your home and work space reflect it.
  • Buy fresh flowers or decorate with air purifying houseplants
  • Light scented candles
  • Use a salt lamp or crystals like Amethyst, or Selenite to balance the energy and bring positive vibes into your home

selfcarechecklistTips For Using Your Self-Care Checklist

Start off by going through the seven areas and writing down a list of all the things that you want to incorporate into each area.

Use the suggested ideas or add your own. Whatever is going to make you feel happy, well cared for, harmonious and balanced. Keep this list handy and easy for you to refer to.

1. Be Flexible

Let your routine be simple, fluid and flexible. Your needs are going to change daily, monthly and yearly. And honestly What’s the point in creating a self care routine if its unmanageable and stressful?

2. Practice Awareness

Train yourself to take note when you are feeling run down and tired and then ask yourself what you need right now.

Keep asking until it feels right for you.

Creating Your Daily Self Care Checklist

What to consider:

  • How you sleep
  • How you fuel your body
  • How you move your body
  • Things that bring you joy
  • How you connect: Spiritually, Socially, Emotionally, Intellectually
Here are some examples of how you might incorporate self care into your day:

How you sleep

  • Have a set bedtime and wake up time
  • Relax in a hot epsom salt bath before bed
  • Use a cool mist diffuser with lavender essential oil

How you fuel your body

  • Make a fresh fruit smoothie for breakfast
  • Snack on nuts and fresh fruit during the day
  • Eat a piece (or two!) of dark organic chocolate

How you move your body

  • Rise 20 minutes early and walk to work
  • Take an evening yoga class or hit the gym

Things that bring you joy

  • Sing in the shower as you get ready in the morning
  • Buy fresh flowers on your way home from work
  • Get a massage
  • Play with your dog

Your Spirituality 

  • Listen to a 10 minute guided meditation first thing in the morning or just before bed
  • Read a soul inspiring book like, The Power of Now and practice presence

Your Intellectual Wellbeing

  • Listen to an inspirational podcast on your way to work
  • Sign up to learn Spanish

Social Self Care

  • Call a friend, laugh and chat and about your day

Emotional Self Care

  • Cuddle with your pet
  • Snuggle with your boyfriend or partner
  • Write in your journal
  • Read a book on how to set boundaries

There is no right way or wrong way to create your self care list. This is just one way that you can check in with yourself to see if you’re meeting your core daily wellness needs.

Ultimately having a self care checklist that you can turn to, is all about supporting you. In the highest most loving way possible. Valuing and feeling more connected to yourself so you can have stronger relationships and a more satisfying life.

I hope you use this self-care checklist as way to balance living healthier, more relaxed and joyfully everyday.

You deserve it!

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