Do you struggle to get a full night’s sleep? Do you experience anxiety trying to get to sleep or the anxiety that follows when you wake up and are unable to get back to sleep?  With our always on the go lifestyles, it seems that more and more people are unable to relieve their anxiety and get a full night’s rest.  

At A Glance: The 21 Best Essential Oils For Sleep And Anxiety

1. Lavender
2. Rose
3. Vetiver
4. Ylang Ylang
5. Bergamot
6. Chamomile Roman
7. Neroli
8. Cinnamon
9. Cedarwood
10. Lime
11. Grapefruit
12. Frankincense
13. Valerian
14. Sandalwood
15. Clary Sage
16. Jasmine
17. Lemongrass
18. Peppermint
19. Patchouli
20. Melissa
21. Copaiba

Essential Oils For Sleep and Anxiety

Do you feel like you’ve tried it all?

From over the counter supplements to prescription medication, only to find with no real solution to your sleeping troubles?

Finding yourself stuck in the same sleeping pattern, night after night.  Or worse, experiencing side effects from sleep aids that leave you groggy and less than refreshed the next day.

While sleeping pills can seem to help in the short term,  with prolonged use they can bring about a whole new set of problems. Including side effects like headaches, blurred vision, difficulty with balance,  grogginess and slower memory.

Though more rare, they might even cause the user to experience parasomnias. Certain behaviors in which you have no control or memory of doing – like sleep waking, sleep driving, eating and making phone calls.  

What if there was a better, more natural way to calm anxiety and help support sleep?

One such solution is Aromatherapy, a treatment,  using essential oils and botanical’s that have been around for centuries. Made by extracting fatty acids from a plants roots, flowers, bark or fruit or seeds, these oils have powerful medicinal properties that are still widely used today. 

These therapeutic oils are used by a wide range of health professionals including aromatherapists, naturopathic doctors, massage and physio therapists and have stood the test of time for good reason. In study after study they’ve been proven to support natural healing for many conditions and ailments, improving emotional, mental and physical health. 

Some Benefits of Essential Oils:

  • Balance hormones
  • Reduce stress and anxiety
  • Fight insomnia
  • Boost mood
  • Boost immunity
  • Alleviate pain
  • Detoxify
  • Allergy relief
  • Heal skin conditions
  • Improve digestion
  • Reduce cellulite
  • Relieve motion sickness
  • Fight wrinkles and stretch marks
  • Relieve PMS
  • Improve circulation
  • Anti-inflammatory
  • Sooth aching muscles
  • Improve focus
  • And more!

create a sleep routine to calm anxietyHow Do Essential Oils Work?

Whether inhaled or rubbed directly on the skin, the oils work by stimulating the brain to make chemicals, that affect the body’s entire system. Including hormones, which in turn help govern our stress levels.  One study in 2010 concluded that smelling jasmine or gardenia was a mood enhancer that had the same effects on the brain as a prescription sleeping pill.  

When used in combination with following a set night time routine, many people experience less anxiety, less insomnia and a deeper more restful nights sleep.

How To Create a Relaxing Nighttime Routine:

Keep A Set Schedule

Set a regular bedtime and stick to it. Keeping regular hours of when you go to sleep and wake up, including weekends, will help set your your body clock so it can regulate itself more naturally.

Relax Your Entire Body

Have a hot bath with Epsom salts and 5 drops of your chosen essential oil. Epsom salts contain Magnesium which relaxes muscles and helps detoxify the body before bed.

Reduce Alcohol

You might think that glass of red, will help you sleep better but in fact it can cause you to wake up in the middle of the night and experience restlessness, as your liver processes the alcohol. A general guideline is no alcohol at least 3 hours before bed.

Dim The Lights

Dim the lights, or use a Sleep-Ready Light which has been study by NASA and shown to emit wavelengths that help your body produce melatonin naturally.

Avoid Blue Light

At least an hour before bed, avoid any screens that are back-lit. The blue light emitted by many modern electronics will keep you up later by stimulating your system in the same way daylight does. If you can’t resist  a pre-bedtime scroll through Instagram or Facebook,  try checking your devices settings. Most now come with a night time feature that adjusts the screens color, that you can set to automatically come on every night.

night time chamomile teaHave A Nightly Cup Of Herbal Tea

Replace that glass of Vino with a warm cup of herbal tea containing passion flower, chamomile or valerian. The herbs in particular, have been shown to help calm restless sleepers.

De-Clutter Your Mind

If you find yourself consumed by worries and anxious thoughts try doing a nightly “brain dump”. Write out all your “to do’s” for the next day and any fears or concerns that you may have, prep your lunch, organize your clothes. Once you’ve got it all out and know that your day is planned, your mind will be able to be relax allowing you to feel more centered and calm.

Create A Sanctuary

Make your bedroom a relaxing oasis. Splurge on a comfortable mattress. quality bed linens, and a really great pillow.  Silk pillowcase, will stay cooler as you sleep and as bonus you get less hair breakage than with a regular cotton pillowcase.

Daylight & Exercise

This tip is more of daytime tip, but is crucial to getting a good nights rest. Make it a point to get some fresh air and exercise during the day. Spending time outside during the day, helps to regulate hormones and set your internal clocks, reduce stress and increase sleep quality.

Use A Diffuser

Use an cool mist aromatherapy humidifier, which as been shown to freshen and improve air quality. In addition to providing the benefits of aromatherapy, the cool mist can help to soothe and moisturize tired, dry skin. I personally love and use the Breath Essential diffuser.

Here’s Our List Of The 21 Best Essential Oils For Sleep And Anxiety

lavender flowers1. Lavender Essential Oil

Derived from the flowers of the Lavender plant, this oil with its sweet, floral scent is one of the most commonly used and widely studied essential oils.  Balancing and soothing, it helps to reduce stress and anxiety. In addition to inhaling it, incorporating a few drops into your night time body care routine can help ease muscle tension, promote calmness and a deeper more peaceful sleep.

2. Vetiver Essential Oil

Native to India, Vetiver has been used for its holistic properties for centuries. Known as the “oil of tranquility” with a woody and strong rooted earth aroma. When used therapeutically in a night time sleep routine, it helps to balance the nerves, reducing insomnia and restlessness.

essential rose oil 3. Rose Essential Oil

Roses are often thought of as symbols of romance and love, but did you know that the oil extracted from its petals also has many therapeutic benefits? When used in aromatherapy it’s known to calm the emotional heart, lift depression, anxiety, panic attacks and shock. It takes 10,000 petals to get one pound of this beautifully scented oil!

4. Ylang Ylang Essential Oil

This essential oil comes from the tropical ylang-ylang tree and has a sweet, floral, feminine scent. In addition to being used for its medicinal benefits,  this attractive fragrance is added to many perfumes and cosmetic products. It has a harmonizing effect, helping to release anger and jealousy, while boosting self-esteem and optimism.

5. Neroli Essential Oil

Derived from the blossoms of the bitter orange tree, Neroli oil is said to promote relaxation and relief from feelings of anger, chronic depression and anxiety. This oil has strong sedative properties, avoid using if alertness or concentration is required.

Bergamont fruit6. Bergamot Essential Oil

With a spicy, sweet, citrusy aroma, this oil traditionally used in Chinese medicine can help boost confidence, relieve anxiety and is one of the best essential oils for depression. One study found that use the use of bergamot significantly lowered the  cortisol levels of users who reported an improvement in negative emotions and fatigue. When used in blends with other oils it has a balancing effect that harmonizes and enhancing overall fragrance.

7. Cedarwood Essential Oil

Extracted from pieces of the Cedarwood tree, the aroma of this woodsy scented oil, is anti-inflammatory, and has sedative and calming effects. It’s been reported to boost serotonin levels, producing melatonin which regulates and stabilizes sleep patterns.

8.  Lime Essential Oil

This oil is cold pressed from the peel of the lime fruit and has an energizing, tart sweet fragrance. It’s known to help support the immune system and promote a healthy, emotional well-being. In addition to promoting a positive mood, a few drops in your diffuser will help to clean and freshen your air.

chamomile flowers9. Roman Chamomile Essential Oil

Chamomile, is one of the oldest and most widely used medicinal plants in the world for its calming properties. The extracted oil has a strong apple like smell and is used to increase inner peace and harmony while decreasing overthinking and worry.

With a mild sedative effect, that promotes relaxation by reducing anxiety and soothing the nerves. Blends containing lavender chamomile and Neroli have been shown to effectively fight insomnia and improve sleep quality.

10. Grapefruit Essential Oil

Derived from the peels of the grapefruit, the scent from this oil is clarifying, uplifting and sweet. It’s used to help improve mental focus, increase motivation, calm nerves and enhance relaxation. Grapefruit helps turn on the brains relaxation response, is used by some people as a natural antidepressant.  Mix it with coconut oil and massage onto skin, to naturally boost metabolism and fight cellulite.

Cinnamon Bark Oil11. Cinnamon Essential Oil

Used for thousands of years, this sweet and spicy scented cinnamon oil,  is extracted from the plant species Laurus Cinnamon.  With many healthy benefits, it’s a highly concentrated source of beneficial antioxidants and anti-inflammatory properties that helps to fight depression.

12. Valerian Essential Oil

This oil comes from the root of the Valerian plant, and has been widely studied for its sedative qualities. Helping to regulate sleep hormones, it’s used to treat insomnia and improve overall sleep quality.  When inhaled, it’s also useful in lowering anxiety and depression.

13. Sandalwood Essential Oil

This sweet and spicy scented oil has a luxurious aroma, and is known for helping to create an overall sense of relaxation and calmness. If you really in need of a full nights shut eye, use to experience a deeper, more restful sleep.

frankincense resin14. Frankincense Essential Oil

With an enchanting fragrance both earthy and slightly sweet, frankincense oil has a history of being deeply rooted in spiritual practices. Helping to increase connection to the divine, it’s been used for thousands of years in rituals for its sacred benefits. Derived from the resin of the Boswellia Sacra Tree, it’s effects are meditative, grounding and calming to the nervous system. You can even use it on skin to heal and reduce age spots!

15. Clary Sage Essential Oil

Steam distilled from the perennial herb, this essential oil has a nutty, spicy, and uplifting aroma when diffused. It has been used traditionally for its clarifying properties balancing hormones and strengthening the senses.  If you experience chronic anxiety it can support you by inducing feelings of joy.

16.  Jasmine Essential Oil

Used for thousands of years in Asia, this oil is made from the petals of the jasmine flower and has a warm, romantic floral fragrance. With its natural sedative properties, it helps calm a busy mind and create a more peaceful nights sleep.

17. Lemongrass Essential Oil

Steam extracted from dried Lemongrass this is a sweet, mildly lemon scented oil. Containing sedative properties it increases mental strength, boosts self esteem, creating feelings of positivity and confidence.

peppermint essential oil18. Peppermint Essential Oil

This widely known and versatile oil, carries a refreshing and energizing scent and is used treat a wide variety of conditions. When inhaled it has nerving properties which enhance relaxation, reduce tension and boost mood.

19. Patchouli Essential Oil

From the same family of plant that contains sage, lavender and mint and often associate with the sixties, this musky scented oil is exotic, sweet and fragrant. Patchouli, contains highly effective chemical components that when inhaled, release serotonin and dopamine, balancing emotions and calming the mind.

20. Melissa Essential Oil

Also known as lemon balm oil, and the “Elixir of Life”  this restorative oil has a grassy and sweet lemon smell. It will inspire joy and create a feeling of warmth and inner peace. With hypnotic and calming properties it helps to support people who struggle with insomnia.

21. Copaiba Essential Oil

Traditionally used in indigenous folk medicine, this oil is derived from the resin of the Brazilian Copaiba. It’s considered one of the most anti-inflammatory compounds in the world and has a sweet honey smell. When inhaled the properties found in this oil are known to soothe feelings of anxiety and stress.

tips for using essential oilsTips for Using Pure Essential Oils:

  • Inhale directly from the bottle in long, slow, deep breaths
    Add 1 or  or rub 1-2 drops on an eye pillow
    Add 1 or 2 drops on your hand, rub hands together, cup palms and breathe in slowly
Massage Directly:
  • Apply 1-2 drops of oil onto your pulse points: temples, wrists or back of neck
  • Apply 1-2 drops of oil onto chest, soles of feet, or abdomen area
  • Mix 5 drops into a carrier oil, such as grape seed, Jojoba or coconut and massage into skin
In the bathroom:
  • For a fragrant and relaxing experience add 5 drops to your bath
  • Create your own spa steam room: add 5 drops of oil and plug tub, and run the shower on hot
On the go:
  • Creating a Roll-On Bottle is an excellent way to take your oils with you and use them during your day:
    • For a 5ml bottle: Add 10-15 drops into a carrier oil, such as grape seed, Jojoba or sweet almond
    • For a 10ml bottle: Add 20-30 drops into a carrier oil, such as grape seed, Jojoba or sweet almond
  • Can be used as inhaler or massage directly onto skin
Personal Care & Grooming:
  • DYI – Create your own personal care products with the addition of your favorite oils: from shampoo, conditioner, massage oil, bath salts, body butter, toothpaste, lip balm the options are limitless!
In a diffuser:
  • For long term benefits add 5 drops to an aromatherapy steam diffuser
Less Is More:
  • Essential oils are powerful use in small more frequent amount throughout the day rather than one large overpowering dose.
  • Mix with carrier oils and avoid using on broken or irritated skin and sensitive areas such as eyes:

5 DIY Essential Oil Blends To Calm Anxiety

essential-oils-diy blendsThere are many effective oil blends on the market today, but it can also be a lot of fun to create your own at home. Everyone is different so when you creating your own formula it gives you a chance to play around and see what works best for you.

Having a variety of oils at your disposal, is also more cost effective over time,  allowing you treat yourself longer and for more varied conditions.

For the recipes below make sure that you mix with a carrier oil, and always store tightly capped, in dark colored bottles and keep in a cool and dark place.

1. Zen Mind

This blend helps to soothe anxious feelings and calm the mind.

  • 2 drops Cedarwood
  • 2 drops Bergamont
  • 1 drop Ylang Ylang
  • 1 drop Patchouli
2. Harmony

Use this blend to let go at the end of a  busy day.

  • 2 drops Lavender
  • 2 drops clary sage
  • 1 drop patchouli
  • 1 drop Ylang-ylang
3.  Peaceful

A wonderful oil for relaxing and centering an anxious mind.

  • 2 drops Bergamont
  • 1 drop Rose
  • 1 drop Lavender
  • 1 drop Vetiver
4. The Happy Heart

This blend is ideal for night time  diffuser,

  • 70 drops Grapefruit
  • 50 drops Lavender
  • 30 drops  Bergamont
  • 20 drops Rose
  • 10 drops Roman Chamomile
  • 10 drops Jasmine
5. Balance

Perfect to use in a diffuser to restore balance and ease stress.

  • 20 drops Bergamot
  • 20 drops Frankincense
  • 20 drops Sandalwood
  • 10 drops Grapefruit
  • 15 drops Neroli
  • 7 drops Ylang-ylang
  • 5 drops Lime
  • 5 drops Jasmine
  • 5 drops Rose

5 DIY Essential Oil Blends For A Sleep

essential-oils-diyblendsThese warm relaxing blends will help you fall asleep fast, and support you in have a long and restful nights sleep.

1. Sweet Dreams
  • 15 drops Lavender
  • 15 drops Bergamot
  • 15 drops Frankincense
  • 15 drops Cedarwood
2. Sleep Tight
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 7 drops Ylang-ylang
  • 5 drops Patchouli
  • 5 drops Roman Camomile
  • 3 drops Rose
3. Tranquility

The blend helps to instill a restful nights sleep by calming mental chatter and cluttering the mind.

  • 2 drops Lavender
  • 2 drop Roman Chamomile
  • 1 drop Vetiver
  • 1 drop Frankincense
  • 1 drop Bergamont
  • 1 drop Ylang-ylang
4.  Northern Star

Peacefully drift off to sleep with this soothing night time blend.

  • 2 Lavender
  • 2 Veviter
  • 1 Ylang-ylang
  • 1 drop Frankinsence
5.  Goodnight Dear

In need of a full nights rest? This blend is ideal for those who are light sleepers or struggle with insomnia.

  • 2 drops Lavender
  • 2 drops Melissa
  • 2 drop Roman Chamomile
  • 1 Drop Neroli
  • 1 drop Cedarwood
  • 1 drop Frankincense
  • 1 drop Jasmine
  • 1 drop Ylang-ylang

The Best Carrier Oils:

Pure, therapeutic grade essential oils applied directly to skin can be irritating and can cause a reaction. Instead mix with a carrier oil to dilute, prevent sensitivities. Carrier oils also help to increase the effectiveness of the oil as it increases the surface area for better absorption of the medicinal oil.

  • Sweet Almond Oil
  • Avocado Oil
  • Olive Oil
  • Jojoba Oil
  • Pomegranate Seed Oil
  • Coconut Oil

Directions:  Use 1/2 teaspoon of carrier oil per 5 drops of essential oil.

Please Note:

I am an huge fan of essential oils and use them on a daily basis. However, its important to note that some oils do come with certain restrictions and warnings of who should and should not use them.

If you are interested trying essential oils, its important that you purchase oils:

  • That are high quality, pure and organic
  • Harvested from a reputable source
  • Have not been modified or altered
  • Have a label that lists all warnings and precautions you should know before using (interference with certain medications, age, pregnancy etc.)

What are your favorite oils to use for sleep and anxiety?

If I had to pick just one oil that is the best all round, it would have to be Lavender! This oil not only smells great, it is so versatile and multipurpose, it’s a must have for every home!

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